Spend some time reading up about mental illness and especially depression. Subsequently, a train slows to a halt on the tracks. A woman along with her four-year-old daughter allegedly jumped in front of a goods train following a dispute in the family near Meva Nawada railway station of Sahaspur, police said on Saturday. She was caring and a good mother. They don't realize how much of a mental block depression puts on a person. There has to be a point where we can finally stop writing about the lack of awareness of and help for the mentally ill or emotionally unstable in Japan because someone with enough influence actually decided to do something about it for once. Pathologist Dr Rezan Guardi confirmed that the woman died from multiple injuries. But before that can even happen, the stigma in society of seeking help needs to be broken. They do not dwell on the horror and get on with their lives. CCTV footage from the location shows a woman jumping in front of a moving train in Ghatkopar station in Mumbai. If people wish to suicide, whatever, just dont take down others with you. On January 8 2018, the husband took his two children to school and returned home to find the paperwork for the transfer of hospitals lying on the computer keyboard, before he discovered his wife had thrown herself in the path of a high speed train, tragically killing her and his unborn daughter. I wish they talk to me. In the incident caught on CCTV, a policeman jumps after the woman to rescue her. Cleo-summed it up best. Steve@CPFC - 100% agree with all of your posts on this thread. This website and associated newspapers adhere to the Independent Press Standards Organisation's cleo - although I understand what you're trying to say I think you're missing the point that some people are just not in that state of mind to 'stop and think'. Man jumps in front of train yesterday 2022 . The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline. The distressed woman leapt in front of a northbound D train as it entered the station near 86th Street shortly before 9 am, according to authorities. ', 'I did not think she was suffering a relapse at the time although it did not occur to me. Woman killed by oncoming train in Bensonhurst: NYPD. They also default on life insurance (which I think goes to the company, but not sure on that one). Do you know how much money her family is going to have to pay to the train company for this? 'Is it right that the outcome of that was she had an arrangement whereby she would be able to repay it down by monthly 143 contributions?'. It's too bad someone chose to end their life in such a way to so traumatize others. I'm sure they're terribly rattled, though. But then, I think maybe people who do this are actually going for the effect - going out with a bang, so to speak. It is mental illness, do you lot get it "illness". She died at the scene. I have no doubt some do it for the attention, and others are afraid if they did it somewhere privately they might not be found (right away, if not for a long time). Then, it sort of happened to me as well as I was waiting for Keio line - a girl and her mom were sitting on the bench and as the train approached the girl tried to jump. She later made a number of phone calls, including one to her prospective employer and another 'fairly lengthy' call with her landlord, Hightown Housing Association. Join the leaders of English Education for Children in Japan! 16:07 GMT 13 Nov 2020 I think I'd be sick to my stomach if I witnessed that. It is six minutes after she places herself onto that platform that she places herself in the path of the train.'. Instead of complaining about a few delays to your business i would advise learning a bit about what goes through peoples minds at this time.the fact that someone would actually go through with the act says a lot. Too bad about the woman who died, but I'm glad for the four who apparently weren't badly hurt. There is SOME counselling, but it's still woefully inadequate and carries a certain stigma with it. It was an awful experience. How absurd and heartless to say, "legalize suicide". More people rush to help the duo, and they are eventually pulled onto the platform. I was going to call the mental health service team but she said she did not want them to visit, she said they interfered with her marriage and her pregnancy,' he said. maybe we should look at why it is getting worse and what we can do. Stressful start to National Offer Day? According to investigators, her body was hit by the front car and then propelled five meters, through the glass door of a station shop that was situated on the platform. No - she simply didn't think of the effect her action would have on others. JR will be amply compensated for this, as in all other suicides. Leighane Melsadie Redmond, 27, had been taken to court over unpaid bills before jumping onto the tracks at Taplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019. cleo - You're right. I was in a rather cynical mood while typing that out in a frenzy. I think most people sadly have had some kind of contact with mental illness and/or suicide by the time they reach "our age". Mr Wade said: 'Melsadie is pretty well behaved. I am not trying to be rude but making statements like "taking it out on others" is ridiculous. So please don't accuse me of not understanding, I understand it all far too well. Compassion is free. Yeah, she was a big fail, wasn't she? It might not get better. When you are in a state of mind that jumping in front of a train is the best solution to your problems, you are in a very dark place indeed, and rational thought would be a struggle I'm guessing. If you must kill yourself, put your affairs in order first and choose a method that doesn't leave a gory mess. A Long Island Railroad train bound for Rockaway Beach was gliding into the East New York Station at Atlantic Avenue and Manhattan Crossing about 5 o'clock yesterday afternoon when the. If she were aware enough of her surroundings and were able to fully assess her situation, she likely wouldn't have jumped in the first place. Of course she didn't. The 27-year-old was seen with her daughter Melsadie Adella-Rae Parris at Taplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019 for one hour and 12 minutes before their deaths. She had to have felt some pain there. contact the editor here. All of you who said "she was selfish" knew her right? |. I think health ministry and public health departments should be more proactive to combat this epidemic of suicide, Perhaps not by those who say, "well just make it legal". Sad story. steve: "Here is a bit of advice to those who seem to think this woman was selfish or a bad person. Shortly afterwards, Ms Redmond and Melsadie were seen to enter Taplow stationand the pair remained at the station for around 20 minutes. tired of the traffic backed up from suicides? Just imagine buying bottled water in a train station, than suddenly get hit with blood and body parts. Detective Sergeant Simon Rees told the inquest that a financial investigator had examined Ms Redmonds circumstances prior to her death. The act of suicide is not usually selfish becaus ethe victims mindset is beyond that. If it happened to your loved one would you like them to be called "selfish" and other nasty words? The MTA confirmed that somebody was hit at the station and that 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 train service was affected by the ensuing emergency response. To his horror, later that evening Zdenka walked through the door, doused in diesel fuel. We should never condemn the mentally ill this way because it causes trouble to passengers etc. That's truly sad. A Gannett Company. . We should be sad that a woman couldn't face anymore life and think of her family who have lost a loved one. Who "died" and made you the queen of Japanese suicide ethics/morality? "I am going to kill myself, and I am going to make all of you late for work, dates, whatever in the process.". Her movements around the station, going from one side of the station to the other, going down to the station and back up, was an unusual pattern of behaviour. I understand it completely. 1) Trains are of course very common, and very frequent, and in the case of express trains very fast. The identity of the woman is unknown at this time. Southbound 2 and 3 trains are running local from 96th Street to Times Square-42nd Street. 'She had to be admitted to hospital two weeks after we came home,' said the husband. 2) The person could commit the act suddenly and without others knowing what is about to happen. The 26-year-old woman has been identified as Sonakshi Garg. To those who have lost a loved one to suicide, me included, compassion is needed. Ms Redmond was seen wrapped in a poncho, walking hand in hand with Melsadie, who was dressed in a little furry parker jacket and wearing a winter hat and gloves. We can expect more people to commit suicide if they feel they can't survive in this country. The lives that are always involved, the innocent people that have to suffer because the person wants to go out in style. Cleo - would you agree that the definition of selfish could also be applied to the people here who are lacking in consideration for someone who was pushed to the ultimate extreme of taking her own life? Brooklyn, NY - A 43-year-old woman was killed when she jumped in front of a northbound C train at Nostrand Avenue and Fulton Street in Flatbush at around 10:20 p.m. on March 19. Better to choose death. In a startling incident at the Dadar station Maharashtra's Mumbai, a woman jumped before a train. The inquest heard that a member of the public who was walking down the stairs briefly paused to look at Ms Redmond, but then moved on. Another example of what happens when emotions are pent up through the pressure of life in Japan. I always wonder if train jumpers are so frustrated w/ society, that this is their final, middle-finger salute. According to investigators, the woman, believed to have been aged in her 40s or 50s, was standing on the third platform at Shin-Koiwa Station at around 10:00 a.m. She then moved to the edge of the platform as the Narita Express airport service approached, on schedule, at 10:04 a.m. and threw herself in front of the train, which was travelling at around 110 kph. No one as far as I can see is accusing suicides in general or this woman in particular of being malevolent. Get real. They lose their self esteem completely and compound with bad the economy, two-thirds of the people in Japan has money worries and they are feeling helpless. The main thing is mental ilnnes should be seen and treated as any other illness. A big tsunami like Fukushima every year. Spend some time reading up about mental illness and especially depression.". where a woman and a child were at various subway stations yesterday . The following service changes were implemented, according to the MTA: If you or somebody you know are having suicidal thoughts call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK (8255) or call 1-888-NYC-WELL (9355) to speak with a counselor. I have been late 3 times this month because someone thought to throw themselves in front of a train! MoriNoHogosha; very brave of you to come here and post how you feel.Suicide is seen by many as a dirty and nasty thing. Of course, when you have spiralled into the pit of depression and all capability for rational thought has gone, it is not possible to see it that way. I think I'd be sick to my stomach if I witnessed that. Four shoppers sustained minor injuries in the incident. She may simply have chosen this route because of her belief that it would both end her suffering and take the burden of supporting her away from society and/or whatever family she had. I doubt the woman calculated the angle of bounce. www.ndtv.com. Editors' Code of Practice. At 3:17 p.m., at the Broadway and West 96th Street subway station, an unidentified woman jumped in front of a southbound 3 train in an apparent suicide, an NYPD spokesperson told WSR. In a startling incident at the Dadar station Maharashtra's Mumbai, a woman jumped before a train. Giving evidence at the Berkshire Coroner's Court in Reading, Mr Yabani explained that the pair moved to Slough in 2007 after he accepted the role of Minister at St Andrews Church and Zdenka was pregnant with their first son. is rational - at least for now! Train-related accidents may not be common, but they occur in New York City. Not sure what you're saying in the last line, here are you saying you doubt others were traumatized? A heavily pregnant mother-of-two jumped in front of a high speed train after discovering her unborn baby girl could have a facial deformity, a coroner heard. I think they should think about others rather be self centered. And again, now you're going to have several other people at least suffer from stress, trauma (possibly even PTSD) and mental troubles caused by this woman's actions. Police said Wednesday that a woman jumped from a platform into the path of an express train in Tokyo's Katsushika Ward on Tuesday morning, killing herself and injuring four bystanders. If you have lived throug or witnessed a love one living through the hell of severe mental illness you would know why i say these things. Just another day in Japan. Just two days after her eldest son's 10th birthday, the mother-of-two kissed her children goodbye as they went to school and she walked to Slough railway station, the coroner heard on Thursday. We also have to consider the underlying cultural mindset. Whatever the reason, it is clearly a very selfish act indeed. We are no longer accepting comments on this article. There are times when the person is such a low point that death seems the only option. Morre and more we see a lack of empathy for those who suffer.Modern society? As for counselling, this country's culture is built on saving face. She was taken to Mount Sinai West, where she was pronounced dead. She had jumped in front of the train with her . Data returned from the Piano 'meterActive/meterExpired' callback event. In this case I'd bet she didnt want anything more than what she got. She took care.'. And if you want to do something to help someone before they get in this desperate position, a little bit of kindness and understanding really helps. Whenever something like this happens, there's someone whose job it is to clean up the mess. Mr Hector Bradley . All trains should be like Namboku line - no stress there. According to police, the woman, Premalatha of Senthil Nagar in Urapakkam, had quarrelled . New Delhi: A woman jumped in front of the Delhi Metro train at Model Town Metro station on Saturday and committed suicide. I was trying to get rid of her sadness.'. Now, I have said and will continue to berate the system here for their lack of help not only for people thinking about suicide but for mental disorders and illness in general, and the fact that there is still a lot of stigma is disgusting. To be honest I think this choice of suicide is partly due to the 'normalcy' - it is a very common way that the next person might follow the same way regardless of why or whoever else gets pulled into it, but also it could be like giving a middle finger or a big **** all you to society, because it was society that let the person down?? EXCLUSIVE - Revealed: Carol Kirkwood's secret toyboy fianc - 13 years her junior - is a divorced police 'Digital antidepressants' to be rolled out on the NHS as health bosses give eight apps and web-based therapy Do not sell or share my personal information. The victim was pronounced deceased at the scene. Her family may be pressured by the train company to pay a "fine" but they have no obligation to pay and any company should be condemned by the public for badgering a grieving family. Somehow she wasn't up to speed, couldn't get with the program. 40.680481 -73.843731. Another deluded individual. Suicides usually choose JR over other lines as 100kph trains thunder through the stations. to seek help? - 140 15 . It seems some people don't understand the meaning of the word 'selfish': lacking consideration for others. In . Obviously the woman had problems, but if she left a family behind not only will she have shocked them deeply by killing herself, but she might be making them lose a lot more than that as well. I'm sure she didn't mean to be knocked back onto the platform when she jumped. Zdenka kept her third pregnancy a secret from her husband for five months, the coroner heard. the fact is we have to understand that people who kill themselves are in no state to start considering others, they don't even want to live. Police had few immediate details, but said the person may have jumped in front of the subway. Kiosk and bystanders apparently unhurt. The inquest was set to continue for five days. - Imagine how you would feel if you were standing in the kiosk buying some brunch and a body flies through the window knocking you off your feet. Describing CCTV footage showing the mother and daughter, Assistant Coroner Ian Wade KC said: Sadly, what we can see is that she gathers Melsadie up in her arms and jumps carefully from the platform and is then struck by the train.. This site is part of Newsquest's audited local newspaper network. Should donate blood on a regular basis and visit third world poor countries to put life in perspective. I wonder what happened ? the guy then got stuck between the platform and the train and it was a huge mess, he said. Girl, 2, looks star-struck as she presents Kate with a gift of Daffodils for St David's A bargain fit for a king: Grade II-listed manor house complete with barn and gatehouse is listed at auction Who said black and white pics were flattering! These adverts enable local businesses to get in front of their target audience the local community. Leighane Melsadie Redmond had been taken to court over unpaid bills, the inquest at Beaconsfield Coroners Court heard today (November 15). Royal Mail worker Zdenka Yabani spiralled downhill after a scan of her unborn daughter revealed the news that her baby was 'small' and could have a facial abnormality. The identity of the woman is unknown at this time. Sorry to sound flippant, but every life lost is (often) another 3,4,5 scarred. Leighane Melsadie Redmond had been taken to court over unpaid bills, the inquest at Beaconsfield Coroners Court heard today (November 15). Chiyoda-ku Woman is left 'looking like Rose West' thanks to unflattering Tory Eurosceptics could take TWO WEEKS to decide whether to back Rishi Sunak's Brexit deal for Northern Watch as shoplifter puts BACK products he's trying to steal after live CCTV hub tells him: 'You're being Is YOUR lifestyle good for your heart? I wouldn't be surprised if some of those injuries were from bone fragments or other parts that came off from the impact. Describing the CCTV footage, DS Rees told the inquest: 'Her behaviour, as a police officer watching, was not normal. Very well said, I totally agree with you on this. The woman jumped in front of a southbound A train at Rockaway Boulevard around 10 a.m., police said. I bow to those with deep enough compassion. EXCLUSIVE: Lanzarote sticks to its guns and insists it WILL limit tourists and move away from relying on Nearly half of British viewers believe ethnic minorities and LGBT communities are over-represented on TV, Is YOUR wood burner at risk? I don't know the severity of that woman'situation, so I can't say what pushed her over the edge, but I doubt she had any people she could be open with or even had a shoulder to lean on. If you want to feel preachy you can even require psychological counseling but give them some out of the way place to do it. A 35-year-old man allegedly died by suicide by jumping in front of a suburban train in Maharashtra's Thane district, a police official said on Thursday. If anything, Government action should be to reach out to the weak to remind them they are loved. Some say the most efficient way is to jump into an active volcano. NDTV delivers reliable information across all platforms: TV, Internet and Mobile.Subscribe for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/user/ndtv?sub_confirmation=1Like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ndtvFollow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/ndtvDownload the NDTV Apps: http://www.ndtv.com/page/appsWatch more videos: https://khabar.ndtv.com/videos?yt However, they returned just 12 minutes later at 8.17pm. A suicide note has also been recovered by the police. Please show her and her family some respect. If you are dissatisfied with the response provided you can The woman jumped in front of a southbound A train at Rockaway Boulevard around 10 a.m., policesaid. Ignorant selfish act, saw this on the news last night looked horrible and the people that got hit by her flying body must be traumatised. Tel: +81 3 5829 5900 With a train you just stand on the platform and make that sudden, crucial decision to step or jump forward without anyone having the chance to stop you (unless you WANT to be stopped). I've been close enough to the edge that I remember feeling nothing but fear, just being scared to hell, and debilitating sadness. A heavily pregnant woman died this morning after jumping in front of a high-speed train - also killing her unborn baby. It is important that we continue to promote these adverts as our local businesses need as much support as possible during these challenging times.